Wake Windows

Written By Felicia Dunbar

If you’ve ever looked at the clock after your baby wakes up and thought, “What do I do now?” - you’re not alone! Wake windows can feel like a lot of pressure, especially when you’re trying to figure out what your baby should be doing between naps. 

Every minute doesn’t need to be filled with an activity. Your baby’s wake window is just time for them to eat, connect, learn, and get ready for their next nap!

1. Start With a Feeding

For many babies, feeding is the first thing on the agenda after waking. Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, give your baby the opportunity to eat when they’re hungry.

Remember: feed your baby, not the clock. Your baby’s hunger cues are more important than trying to stick perfectly to a schedule.

2. Get in Some Tummy Time

Tummy time helps your baby build strength in their neck, shoulders, arms, and core.

Try a few short sessions throughout the day. You can even get down on the floor with your baby and make it a time to connect and play.

3. Talk, Sing & Read

Talk to them while you go about your day. Tell them what you’re doing, sing a song, make silly faces, or read a book together.

These simple interactions help your baby hear language and recognize your voice while building connection.

4. Let Baby Explore

Give your baby time to simply explore the room with their eyes. 

Place them somewhere safe and let them look around, kick their legs, grab at toys, or watch what’s happening around them. You don't need to constantly entertain your baby.

5. Follow Their Cues

Every baby is different. 

Watch for signs that your baby is getting tired, such as:

  • Yawning

  • Rubbing their eyes

  • Looking away

  • Becoming fussy

  • Losing interest in play

  • Becoming less engaged

When you notice those sleepy cues, start winding things down and prepare for the next nap.

Your baby’s wake window doesn’t need to be filled with a perfectly planned list of activities.

Feed. Play. Connect. Rest. Repeat.

Some days you might get tummy time, a book, and a walk around the house. Other days, your baby may eat, cuddle with you, and spend most of their wake window in your arms. 

At Midwest Milk and Moms, we’re here to remind you that you don’t have to figure out motherhood alone.

Felicia Dunbar
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